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Women should have own space….

2009-02-05T02:10:00.000-08:00

Women should have own space….

Yes…….. I am starting here my own blog , This is my own space , where I will open my mind and present my thoughts and views in front of mass .I will get new friends, guides and advisers and in a way a whole new world…

How I realized and searched for my own space

For many years, I was doing my job sincerely and living my family life traditionally … Never thought of enjoying the life in different ways – going out with old friends ,hotelling , strolling , re-defining old hobbies, , utilizing time more effectively etc…or else I never tried to search my own time for myself ….
Then once i.e. on 5Th May 2007 , I managed to meet 4 to 5 old friends ,after about 10 years…… we talked ,talked , for about 2 to 5 hrs…. and I was totally refreshed….
Here and here I realized that I should meet old friends ,this is the true refreshment for me and found that if I continued meeting , sharing my views, happenings with my friends , I am enjoying the life more and more…. So I got it ‘My Own Space’…
Again … I found that it is bit difficult to meet , communicate with all those friends on day to day basis or regular basis , hence thought of ‘why not to talk to myself and write down the thoughts and views and if possible share them with others, new ones ….and then I came across the new concept i.e. the blog …So here I am ….

I have created and found my own space here… on my own blog …

In my opinion, every woman needs to find and search for her own space, the time for herself , since she is the one who always spares whole of her time for the family and is less responsive for her own requirements .

Here I am pointing out some thoughts in sink with my topic…

1. Women …all working / non working … married /non married should have their own friend circle… if it is not available start making it .. options => local train groups , mailing group, chatting group for working women … and children play park group, children school group( the women who take the children to school),bhishi group, reading books group( women who read books from library), society group for non working-women. This group may be gossiping, complaining about in-laws, discussing nonsense topics like life of bollywood industry , but note that all this will keep them away from family and office tensions and will help them to ventilate their thoughts.
2. Note … managing house responsibilities is your prime responsibility but not the only responsibility. So find some time at least ½ hour daily only for your self. This ½ hour and more may be used for refreshing your skills ( lost touch with stitching clothes, singing , playing music instruments etc), develop old hobbies ( like the things which u like but are left out due to study , marriage, house responsibilities say learning music, learning playing musical instruments, playing tennis, learning swimming, learning drawing ,painting , photography etc), entertaining (listening music which u , yourself like, hotelling with friends, gossiping with friends , watching TV shows) etc ..
3. Please do not waste your time watching TV serials one after the other daily soaps, Note this will not help u to entertain , instead will spoil your time , as your mind gets involved with those daily home matters… extra marital affairs, sas- bahu zagada and u will not learn anything fruitful or it will not help you to solve your own family problems. Instead watch business channels or read business magazines which will guide u about new business trends, give guidelines to start new business ,invest money in shares,funds,banks , children future education plans etc.. Right now I am managing to invest this evening time with my small kids by playing with them , some may be utilizing this time by taking studies of children. But here I am having only 2 to 3 suggestions. I have no answers for the senior ladies ,If anybody having any other suggestions for this point are welcome
4. One may start or join to the mahila bachat gat or business group like ‘Saturday club’ which encourage people to start new business or help new sources for their current business.
5. Some may join NGOs , social groups, public medical officers groups so that they can help poor , old , orphanage people.

So try for this , create your own space and Enjoy your life and be happier than before….

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शिवाजी पार्क ,दादर हे सासर , मग त्यात काय विशेष .......

Women should have own space….